All children do that, part 2

Here's a good example of the adopted children vs biological children thing. Today Tickle came home with a note in his book saying he'd hit another child. 

Not out of the ordinary, you might think. Boys will be boys? Biological children do that too!

Tickle hit the child in the face with a whiteboard.

The reason Tickle hit the child, so he tells me, is because Tickle wanted him to talk, and he wasn't talking. 

The child is non-verbal, epileptic, and in a wheelchair. 

It's *really* hard to continually be kind and loving towards a child who's behaviour disgusts you. Sometimes, I can see past the behaviour to the child underneath, but in situations like this when it's done in anger, where he doesn't feel particularly threatened, he just wants his own way... I know underneath it all the issues are still there, the root of it all is the same, but... it's hard. 


His anger exhausts me.




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